She always taunts me about my salary. she says that There is a huge gap between our income and expenses, due to which his mental health is deteriorating. I am working very hard day and night. But even after this he is not ready to understand. Although the employers at my previous company are willing to hire me back, I don’t want to go back to that hell. This is because there is no problem of money, but it is very difficult to work there. This is also a big reason that I do not understand what should I do? (All images are indicative, we protect the identity of users in the stories shared by them)
Expert Answer
Ravi, founder of AIR Institute of Realization and AIR Center of Enlightenment, says that first of all I want to ask you is there really a big difference in your salary and expenses or is it just a taunt? That’s because you mentioned that your wife inspired you to quit your old job and pursue your passion, but everything changed completely after marriage. In such a situation, I would say to you that if things are not going as expected in your marriage, then you have to understand what is going wrong after all.
I am also saying this because you and your wife are in the same team. You two are not different from each other at all. In such a situation, it is better to work together on things than spoiling them. Solve this problem patiently. Tell your mind to your wife. While there, listen to their thoughts as well. Ask her what is the thing that bothers her.
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On the same topic, Vishal Bhardwaj, founder and relationship coach at Predictions for Success, says that you have not made any mistake in leaving the workplace which was harming your mental and physical health. This is because a good salary can never cure your bad health.
I agree that professional development is important. This is because as we move ahead in life, our expenses also increase. But it is also not right to put yourself in hell because of this. In such a situation, I would tell you that you should also look for some other source of income.
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After listening to all your talk, I will tell you that money cannot come overnight. But efforts must be made to get it. At the same time, switching your career is also not a big deal, especially when your financial needs are not being met well. But in this whole process, you need a lot of patience and patience.
At the same time, I would also say that you should talk to your wife. If she can help you with the household expenses, then you can also suggest her to get a job. This is because when both of you earn money, then to a large extent the problems between you will end. At the same time, your wife will also understand to what extent you are working hard.
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