Why girls are different than boys: Know interesting reasons
It is said that men think with their brain and women think with their heart, perhaps that is why there is a difference between their thinking. Where women get curious about small things, but are not satisfied, whereas men are not quick to get curious, but they definitely get satisfied. Know about some such different, but interesting thinking of men and women.
Not only the physical structure of men and women is different, but their thinking and mentality are also completely different from each other, that is why this English proverb is very famous, women are from Venus, men are from Mars. Although the list of issues showing the different mindset of men and women is long, but we have gathered some such special and interesting topics, which reveal the different thinking of men and women.
family vs work
Woman: Whenever women are disappointed with their personal life, they are unable to pay attention to their professional life. Psychologists say, “Women give more importance to personal life than professional life, so due to family issues, their professional life itself gets affected.”
Men: Men’s mindset is just the opposite. They give priority to professional life rather than personal, so whenever their
If there is upheaval in professional life, then its direct effect is visible on his personal life. According to the psychologist, “Being the head of the household, the economic responsibility of the family falls on the men. In such a situation, the obstacles in professional life make them worried about the future financial security of the family, as a result of which professional problems take the form of family problems.
Woman: Women believe more in sharing problems rather than finding solutions. Until she shares her problem with someone, she does not feel at peace. By telling someone, her mind gets blown away and she feels herself in the open sky. Sushma, a 23-year-old home maker, says, “Until I tell my best friend or colleague about the ill-treatment meted out to me by my mother-in-law, my heart sinks and once I do, So I start feeling fresh and light.
Men: Contrary to the nature of women, men do not consider it appropriate to talk to others about their problems, rather they try to find a solution for it themselves and do not sleep peacefully until they find a solution. According to the psychologist, “Women become stress free because of sharing their things, while the stress graph of men goes on increasing. As a result, not only does the age of women increase as compared to men, but the risk of disease like heart attack also decreases.
Woman: There is no end to the desires of women, they want to get everything from life. Good career, good husband, good in-laws… and many more are expected in the mind of women.
Men: While men are happy even with casual jobs. All things should be the best, these things do not matter much for men. According to psychologists, “Men are not only satisfied with physical facilities sooner than women, but also know how to control their desires very well, while women are unable to control their desires. She just cherishes the hope of getting everything.
lied crow bitten
Woman: Women are ahead of men in lying. “There can be no one better for me than you… you are the most handsome of all my male friends…” women speak to their husbands without hesitation and very easily.
Men: Whereas men cannot lie by looking into their wife’s eyes. Even if he tries, it is clearly evident from his faltering tongue and body language that he is hiding something. In this regard, 29-year-old Viraj Sharma tells his experience that “Whenever I try to lie to my wife, I am immediately caught, while I cannot understand the lies of my wife until she tells me herself. Don’t say that I lied to you that day. Psychologists say, “Women are smarter than men, because the left brain of women develops early, so girls start speaking in 8-9 months after birth, while boys learn to speak after 12-14 months.” .”
mode of communication
Woman: If we look at the conversation between husband and wife, then it is known that wives talk to their husbands in roundabout ways. She doesn’t say anything clearly or directly. She also uses more interrogative sentences, for example, if she wants to eat a sandwich, she asks her partner, “If I make a sandwich for breakfast, will you eat it?” “Would you mind if I wore jeans?” Men have to answer such questions very carefully, because whatever the result, the blame falls on them.
Men: In the matter of conversation, the male partner is more direct and accurate than the wife. Like his wife, he does not twist his words. Whatever has to be said, he says it directly – like, “I want to eat a sandwich for breakfast, make it.” “I don’t like wearing your jeans, don’t wear them.”
bill payment fund
Woman: After having lunch or dinner with their female colleagues or friends in hotels, restaurants, etc., women do not pay the bill amount alone, but happily share it among themselves and deposit their respective amount and give it to the cashier.
Men: While men do not keep track of the money eaten and drunk with friends and colleagues. They pay the bill without any hesitation, without even waiting for the co-worker or friend to take out the purse. In this regard, 25-year-old Rajeev says, “According to me, this habit of women is good. This does not burden anyone’s pocket with extra money. Whereas many times it happens with men that they have to loose their pockets because of friends and colleagues even if they don’t want to.
sale and purchase
Woman: 1000 even if women are not needed. She buys sandals for Rs.500, because she is engaged in sandals sale.
Men: While men buy shoes worth Rs.500 for Rs.1000 when in need, that is because they are in dire need of that thing.
According to psychologists, “Girls are taught to apply bindi, wear bangles, adorn themselves, etc. from childhood, hence shopping becomes a hobby of women. As a result, women fulfill their passion without worrying about the consequences, while men give importance to necessity rather than hobby and buy only those things which they need.
extent of instruction
Woman: To find a solution to a problem, women’s instructions from their husbands are not enough, rather they share their problems with each and every one of their loved ones and try to find out their solution. Not only this, even after listening and understanding everyone, she is not able to take any decision.
Men: Whereas men try to solve any problem on their own. In some cases, he even takes the advice of his wife.
They do not consider it necessary, and even more so they cannot digest the unsolicited advice given by the wife. Rupali Verma, 29, a teacher by profession, says, “When I see my husband upset, I try to understand his problem. I also give them the right advice, but my husband gets furious after listening to my advice. Although my advice is correct in many cases, but still they do not listen to my advice. According to psychologist Minisha, “Men are egoistic, so they do not accept the advice of others. They feel that they are capable of solving their own problems, they don’t need anyone else.”
chatting on mobile phone
Woman: Women use mobile phones to chat with their loved ones for hours. The funny thing is that she doesn’t even get tired while talking.
Men: Whereas for men, mobile phone is just a means of communication, through which they convey their words to others. Not only this, men are not able to talk to their friends on the phone for hours like women, their talk gets limited to just 15-20 minutes. In this regard, 30-year-old Ajay Singh says, “I am quite surprised when my wife returns home after staying at her parental home for fifteen to twenty days and starts talking to her sisters for hours. I do not understand what was left to say in fifteen-twenty days, which she is saying now.
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