In this post, Saina Nehwal shared her ‘classic love story’ and told that ‘I first met Parupalli Kashyap in the badminton court. Friendship gradually turned into love. After spending time together, I had understood that I want to spend my whole life with this person. But there was one problem i am from haryana and that is hyderabad and inter cunity marriage is still very big issue in our society. Because of which we had to hide our relationship for a long time.
Love has no caste, religion or society. But it is very difficult to explain these things to those four people of the society, for whose fear we often strangle our happiness. Thinking about what the society will say, people get their own daughter killed for falling in love with a boy of another religion. In such a situation, it is necessary to ask ourselves, for how long will we continue to live our lives for others. Falling in love, getting married and living together is a very personal decision of two people. In such a situation, if you too have fallen in love forgetting the limits of caste and community, then the tips given here can help you handle the pressure of the society.
(Photo Credits- Saina Nehwal Instagram)
decide with your partner
To handle the pressure of the society, it is most important that your partner stands with you. There is no point in fighting society if both of you are not ready to face it together.
Therefore, together with your partner, think carefully about the advantages and disadvantages of taking your relationship forward.
Must be self dependent
The pressure of the society is more on those people, who are not successful in their life. So if you want to break the rules of the society, first make a place for yourself in the society. Due to this, you do not have the fear of being thrown out of the society.
don’t answer people’s questions
When you do some work without caring for the society, you have to face many kinds of questions. In which many times people get trapped and start doubting themselves. In such a situation, it is important to avoid answering everyone.
don’t try to justify yourself
When you try to justify yourself, you allow others to convince you. Sometimes, even if your answer is straight and brilliant, the person in front of you may try to brainwash you in their own way. So don’t give explanation to anyone for your decision.
