However, I try to get it right every time. But he is not ready to reform. While living in the family, it is not right to do what you want every time. Because of this one reason, our relationship with everyone can get spoiled. (All images are indicative, we protect the identity of users in the stories shared by them)
Expert Answer
Aanchal Narang, Founder and Relationship Expert, Anadar Light Counselling, says that I understand this situation is very frustrating and tiring for you. But I do believe that setting boundaries will be better for all of your relationships. In such a situation, first of all you have to talk to your wife.
You need to tell them that your relationship with your sister and parents is getting spoiled because of their behavior. Not only this, you also have to make them realize that it is not at all necessary that they be right every time.
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There can be problem in marriage
As you told that you have tried to explain to your wife many times but she does not listen to you even a single thing, so in such a situation I would say that try to talk with her lovingly. Tell them that while living in a family, everyone has to get along.
It is possible that after listening to your words, their mood gets spoiled. But during this you have to work with patience and restraint. This is because this one reason can also cause problems in your marriage.
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maintain your relationship with family
If your wife is not ready to listen to you even after trying a lot, then there is no need for you to defend her actions. Try to separate your relations with your family. This is because because of your wife, your relationship with your family will also get completely spoiled.
If you want, you can talk to his family members about this. Not only this, you can also meet a family counselor to deal with this issue.
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