Actually, he is not talking to me for the last three weeks. He doesn’t call or text me. To be honest he has started ignoring me. I don’t know what is the reason? But I am very worried. (All images are indicative, we protect the identity of users in the stories shared by them)
Expert Answer
Relationship counselor Rachna Avatramani in Mumbai says that I can understand how lonely you must be feeling at this time, but even after this you do not have to give up. You said that your boyfriend has stopped talking to you even though you used to work things out together. But even after this, you are getting to see a very strange attitude in their behaviour.
In such a situation, I can understand very well that after this situation different types of questions must be arising in your mind. But even after this my advice is that you should talk to any of your common friends. It should not happen that something is not going well with him and his family.
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spend some time with yourself
You also told us that you are in a relationship with that guy for the last two years. In such a situation, I would say that spend some time with yourself. First of all, pay attention to what you want from this relationship. If you are sure that your boyfriend is ignoring you and wants to break up with you, then think no more and prepare yourself for it.
This is because no one can be forced to be with you. At the same time, also pay attention to the kind of person with whom you want to spend your future life. When you understand this, your problem will be solved to a large extent.
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it’s not wrong to talk
If you feel that you should know the exact reason for the breakup, then once you can talk to your boyfriend. You can ask them what has happened all of a sudden, due to which their nature has changed so much. At the same time, you can also tell them that mutual understanding between you two can also be different, due to which neither your relationship will get spoiled nor will there be anything in your mind after separation.
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