Many times it happens that those who are small children, their mind is very stubborn. If their words are not understood properly or if any of their words are not listened to, then they come down completely on stubbornness and then their They get ready to do anything to get the point. Sometimes they start slamming their hands and feet, sometimes they cry loudly or they start insisting on seeing something in the middle of the way. If you want that your If children are not stubborn, then we have brought some such effective tips for you. After adopting them, you will also start seeing some difference in the stubbornness of your children.
Listen carefully to the children- If you want your stubborn child to listen to you, then for this you have to listen carefully to them yourself. If you do not listen to them, they will become more stubborn. If the child insists, then listen to them with calmness and patience and do not interrupt them before their talk is over.
Do not be arbitrary with children – When you force your children about anything, they become rebellious by nature. This habit makes them stubborn later on. By making children do something forcibly, they start doing the same things that they are forbidden to do. Instead of coercing the children, try to connect with them. By taking interest in their choices, the child will tell you everything and then you can lovingly explain to him what is right and what is wrong.
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Give kids choices – Instead of ordering kids, give them suggestions and options. For example, instead of forcing the child to sleep, ask him which stories he would like to listen to while sleeping. If the child still does not listen to you, then do not lose patience. You can tell him that this option was not given to him at all. Say your point many times but without losing your temper. Your child will soon give up his stubbornness.
Get your point across calmly- If you yell at your child on everything, then your child will learn to respond in the same way. Always take the conversation with the child to a conclusion and not turn it into a fight. Always remember that you have to explain something to your child and not fight with him. By engaging in their favorite work with the children, they also start adapting according to you.
Respect the children- If you want your children to listen to you, then you also have to respect their words. Children refuse to accept imposed things. Ask the child for his cooperation in any work. Make a rule for children and do not relax it at all. Don’t dismiss their feelings and thoughts immediately. Let your kids do whatever they can on their own. This will make them feel that you trust them.
Work with them- Stubborn kids or kids with a stubborn attitude are very sensitive and they feel deeply about how they are being treated. So take special care about your voice, body language, your words. When they do not like your behavior, then they start answering everything in reverse and start showing anger to the parents. For example, instead of ‘You do this’, ‘I told you this’ instead of ‘Let’s do this’, what to do? Say this. If you want your child to do something, then do it in some fun way.
Sometimes it is also important to accept the matter – if your child is not wanting to sleep at the right time, then instead of pressurizing to sleep at the same time, give some relaxation so that both the demands are seen to be fulfilled.
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